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Easy froM Start

to Finish

You don’t need to plan anything, know what to wear, or have any idea how to pose. That’s all handled. Here’s the whole process in six steps.

Step 1: Reach Out

The hardest part. After this, it's all downhill.
  • Send a quick inquiry through the contact form, or request a call if you'd rather talk than type.
  • No sales pitch, no pressure.
  • I respond personally, usually within a couple of hours. I'll be looking to set up a time to talk: the Consultation.
Send an Inquiry

Step 2: The Consultation

A conversation, not a sales call

About 20 minutes on Zoon or phone. (I've even met a client at a coffee shop.) I'll ask about you. You ask me anything, for anything.

What I want to learn:

  • What's prompting this.
  • What you're nervous about.
  • How you want to feel in your images.

Questions I hear most:

  • "The photographer is a man. Will I be comfortable?" Yes. A dedicated female assistant is with you the entire session. I address this up front because I know it’s on your mind.
  • "What if I don’t know what to wear?" Handled in the next step. I’ll send you personalized outfit recommendations.
  • "What if I’m not the type who does this?" There is no type. I’ve photographed women from 24 to 74, size 2 to size 24. The only requirement is showing up.

Step 3: Plan + Prep

Where the concierge part kicks in.

After our consultation, I’ll create three personalized Outfit Idea Boards for you. These are curated looks based on your skin tone, body, comfort level, and the mood you described.

  • Each board includes specific pieces, colors, and a note on why I chose them for you.
  • Hair and makeup artist is coordinated and breifed on your style preferences.
  • Every logistical detail is handled before you arrive.
You handle: Getting yourself to the studio.
I handle: Everything else.

Step 4: Shoot Day

The part everyone's nervous about. Then the part everyone loves.

When you arrive:

  • Private, by-appointment studio. Already set up for you: your music, your drink, your space.
  • My assistant gets you settled and escorts you to hair and makeup (first 1 to 1½ hours).
  • No rush. Have a sip, grab a snack. Relax into it.

When we start shooting:

  • I demonstrate every pose myself. You mirror it. No guessing.
  • I guide your hands, chin, and expression. Down to the smallest detail.
  • I’ll tell you when something is working: “That line, hold that.”
  • I show you the back of the camera so you can see it happening.
  • Your female assistant handles wardrobe adjustments, comfort checks, and energy the entire time.
1 1/2 to 3 hours. 3 to 4 outfit changes. Most women walk in stiff and walk out asking when then can come back.

Step 5: The Reveal

The moment the whole experience builds toward.

A week or so later, we meet again for a private viewing of your full image set. 40 to 80 photographs on a large screen. Just you and me. Or whoever you want with you.

  • No rush. No timer. No pressure to decide on the spot.
  • Browse your images. Feel what you feel.
  • Then we walk through Keepsake options: albums, wall art, folios, and more.
  • You pick what you love. You leave behind what you don’t.
You should never be asked to guess what you'll love. That's why Keepsakes aren't sold up front. You see the work first. Then you decide.
Packages

Step 6: Delivery

Private. Secure. Yours.
  • One sneak peek image sent within hours of your session.
  • Digitals and Keepsake products delivered through a secure, password-protected process.
  • No one sees your photos unless you choose to share them.
  • Final delivery: typically 3 to 6 weeks after the Reveal, depending on international shipping.
Every time you open that album or glance at that print, you’ll remember the day. Not how you looked. How you felt.
Take the

next Step

Ready?

The best next step is a free consultation. Just a conversation about what this could look like for you.

Still unsure?

Browse the portfolio or read what other women have said. When you’re ready, I’m here.

Collage from Lady M's boudoir photoshoot with Steamy Esteem.
Ready to

Transform yourself?

Let's Connect! The best way to truly understand the magic of boudoir photography and the incredible impact it can have on your confidence and self-image is through a complimentary consultation with me, your photographer. During this relaxed and personalized chat, we’ll explore your vision, answer your questions, and talk through any hesitations you might have. It’s your chance to discover how this experience can help you see yourself in a new, empowering light while creating something beautiful and meaningful just for you. Together, we’ll craft a session that celebrates who you are and highlights your unique beauty. Let’s connect and start this journey—I can’t wait to talk with you and show you just how transformative this can be!

*We shoot in a studio that’s wheelchair accessible (though the restroom does not have grab rails). If you have accessibility needs, we’re happy to adapt and accommodate however we can.

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